and affection? We are all wired to have our intimacy needs met. The
bottomline is we need God and He created us to need each
other.Relationships are the one thing everyone desires and needs.
Without relationships we wouldn't make it very far. Building and
maintaining relationships is key in all areas of our life. We were all born
needy,and it is okay because it is the way God created us.
Friends it is time out for spending serious time with casual people. I
don't know about you, but my time is of value. None of our days should
be spent wasted on things, places, or people that aren't moving us
towards our destiny. Are you in a relationship with someone that is
there for the 'meantime', until what you are looking for comes along?
Are you playing wife, shacking up, doing laundry, cooking and
cleaning, and having sex with him? Are you acting like a husband,
whining and dining her knowing that this isn't your wife and you don't
plan to marry her. People, if you know what your desires are,
don't play house with someone who you do not see in your future. How can
God release what is yours if you are holding on to someone who isn't?
Or has He released what's yours and you missed it because you're
spending serious time with someone who isn't serious about you.
If he/she isn't the one, then why does he/she have the key to your
place? Why are you living together doing the things married people do
like share bank accounts, co-sign on vehicles, have sex and paybills together?
If this person hasn't committed to you, why are you giving of yourself
exclusively to them? Know your value and your worth. Why would one
commit to you if you are giving everything that should be given once
it's been deemed a committed relationship?
His riches and glory in Christ Jesus (Philippines 4:19). What He has for
you is for you. You just need to be prepared, open and ready to receive. But
first we must trust God. Let's not be lead by emotions and feelings, for they
have no intellect. But instead let's be lead by God's spirit. When He sends
his very best and it's not a decision made by our flesh, he blesses you in
ways you can't even imagine. Just follow and be sensitive to God's leading.
For He knows the plans for your life and He will deliver you from temptation
(Jeremiah 29:11;2Peter 2:9). God knows you're on the market, in the 'meantime'
His grace is sufficient.
"If you believe, you will receive whatever you ask for in prayer." Matthew 21:22
"Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer." Romans 12:12
"Don't be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition,
with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God,
which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:6-7